JaimeeJ22: about me

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About me

Well HI!

My names is Jaimee and welcome to my blog! I started 22 with 2 for a fun get away place to write and post pictures! To share my journey as a young wife and mom!

Lets see a little about me and my life, well now I am 23 and have been married for 6 years this August! I have to girls that are 5 and 1!

My life of being a young mom and a young wife, is amazing. I didn't expect to have a family this young, but my life has turned out to be amazing. I am so happy and wouldn't want it any other way!

Come along for the Journey, I'm excited to share!

Jaimee

"The wedding I will never have"

A breath taking ceremony, a white gorgeous dress, family and friends, perfect weather, a father daughter dance that would make you cry, dancing until my feet went numb

Well, I have always wanted a gorgeous wedding. I dreamed of a big wedding with people I love. A romantic setting, a gorgeous dress, a handsome groom waiting at the end of the isle. A photographer snapping pictures on that moment that I want to remember for the rest of my life.

BUT... I never will.

I was married young, I was pregnant when I got married.

I choose to get married at 17 with no money.

We choose to do this for our daughter to start a family. To define this importance as being teen parents we wanted to do what was best for us. Create a family even if it was early. Even If we had no money for a big wedding

We loved each other, without a doubt and we wanted to make that commitment to our soon to be daughter.
The choice I will never regret. I married the love of my life. We had our closest friends there and our parents. We picked a park with fountains in the water with a memorial we picked a perfect spot on the grace in the August weather it was perfect. That day it was a little clouding, and about 15 mins after the wedding a Huge dust storm rolled in but we were not in it! :)

My love story didn't start as your typical boy meets girl, boy purposes, girl says yes, big wedding, honeymoon, house, baby.. happily ever after. And that is okay! I learned this way of life is great! but for me it didn't work out that way, but I am so happy it did.

I love my story, I believe things turned out for the best even with no big gigantic wedding, besides would have cost a bucket load ha! and really at the end of the day, does it matter who saw you in the wedding dress, does it matter you spent thousands of dollars, nope it sure doesn't I am the happy. I have been married for 6 years and happy and I have those memories of that wedding that was so simple but was that best

but I would never say never, I am a total fan of renewing my wedding vows. Weddings and marriage you should defiantly celebrate. Its the most beautiful thing how two people become one! I just never know when I will have the time or the money! But I defiantly do have the Pintrest board with all the ideas I love, should check it out, if your planning :) here are some!

but as for my daughters I hope for them to have a wedding they will never forget, I hope their choices are smarter than mine, they can have that dream wedding and their dad can give them away with pride. Marriage is so beautiful and I hope my girls will know that and defiantly dream for that fairy tale wedding.

all in all. my wedding wasn't a glamours but it was so simple that we tied the knot and started a life and a journey together, and we are happy :)

this was a pic was our honeymoon, was tons of fun we went to a lodge with our best friends before going back to reality and 4 months later our daughter was born

thanks for reading :)

6 teen pregnant moments that happened to me

I memorized the song that was playing in the doctors office when I was waiting for my results on if I was pregnant ( deep down I totally knew and wanted to remember that moment)
I was going into my senior year of high school, I had to take Freshman classes because my credits were missing ( yup I was pregnant, with a bunch of 14 year olds, awful)
I was in class once and told the sub teacher I was feeling sick, she wouldn't let me leave. I had a friend tell her I was pregnant which she still didn't believe ( I ended up running out of the class )
Once I had the baby I returned to the school, and one class the teacher didn't even know I was pregnant
I once had a 6 year old ask me, why I was so young with a kid ( I remember her saying your like not old)
I was 5 months pregnant when I got married at 17 years old ( yup, I even had braces)

15 things every YOUNG married life understands with kids

1. Married life consists of getting excited when a new series comes out on Netflix! ( yup!)

2. Having a food fight just because (I have had to pull out the vacuum a few times after )

3. Having those spray bottle wars just because we are home

( we have yet to have a nurf gun war :))

4. Having to Rock Paper Scissors on every chores we wish not to do ( yup, dirty diaper are the main ones ha!)

5. Realizing that every night is that sleep over with your best friend

6. Playing those car games or 20 questions on people we both know

7. Having contest on who can make the best food dish ( I can make pizza?!

8. Learning every character from every cartoon along with the theme song!

can you name and hum this one?

9. Having contest who can race to the bed the fastest (or race anywhere,)

10. Hiding in the darkness and popping out seeing if you can make the other person scream ( or just pranking)

11. When birthdays come around have the hardest time thinking on what to get

12. Realizing you have no friends that are married and have kids so you can hang out with

13. Than going to the Redbox and getting tons of movies because well there is nothing else to do

14. Having to find a babysitter and realizing what are you going to do and you already miss your kids

15. Having on going inside jokes and cracking up when with others and than laugh about it till your sides hurt

but the best part of all, realizing again that this is the best because moments like these are priceless